I shoot weddings with all primes... I don't even have a zoom lens compatible with my 5D2

I will tell you, there are a lot of times in a wedding day where I do wish I could zoom out or in just slightly, but it just forces me to think that much further ahead, plan my shots accordingly, and as my photographer boss says, "Set yourself up for success." This means selecting the right field of view, the right positioning, and the right settings.
You said your 50 was too long - I'd agree, it can be really limiting in terms of field of view on a crop camera, and your subjects can lose their context pretty quickly if you are working in too limited a space where you can't back up more. If that's the case, make a switch to your 30mm and you should have a bit more breathing room. This happens to me a lot in crowded reception halls. I might be fine to be shooting my 85mm when I'm positioned at the edge of the dance floor for candids, but when I'm in the thick of the guests in the back tables, I'm dealing with maybe a few feet of (literal) wiggle room between chairs... time for the 50 to come out.
I don't necessarily look down on zoom-users, as I'd *love* to be able to go from wide to tele in half a second from time to time, but I tend to get my head into the shooting mode better when I'm locked into one focal length. You really have to sit down and play with the lens for a while to learn it's strengths, weaknesses, and when it may or may not be appropriate to use. I have a 135mm lens that sits in my bag for 80% of the day (even though it's one of my favourites) simply because it's only truly helpful to my cause during a formal portrait session. Same goes for engagement photo shoots - I'll only use it when I *really* want to compress a background or do some hardcore subject isolation.
I don't know what you shoot in particular, so a general-purpose zoom lens probably works best for you, for your purposes. However, if I was limited to f/2.8 most of the time, I'd probably pull my hair out. I tend to
stop down to f/2.8 a lot, but when it gets dark, I know I have up to 2 stops of aperture to play with.
Rorschach brought up a good point about wanting everything tack-sharp all the time. You might be disappointed with your results for a few reasons... for one thing (like you mentioned), it's tough to nail focus at 1.8 or 1.4. I can, and do consistently, but after practicing a LOT over the last 4 years, and I also shoot a LOT. Law of Averages says you'll nail focus at 1.8 in at least one in a decent burst of 4-5 shots (which is what I do when I shoot at those apertures). If you want more safety, stop down and you get some greater insurance of a sharp shot (light-permitting).
Image Stabilization would be a lovely addition to any of my lenses, but technique can let you get away with shots at less than 1/focal length shutter speeds. I shot a closeup of the ring exchange at the last wedding with my 135 at 1/80th (normally I'd use 1/160th at least) and in a burst of 5 shots I got three pin-sharp ones. Pretty decent amount there.
Ultimately primes vs zooms comes down to how, what, and when you shoot what you do. If zooms work for you, then that's awesome! I am thinking personally about getting a used 24-70/2.8L in the next 6 months as a backup and walkaround lens but I'll still grab my 35/50/85/135s when I want to do serious shooting. Primes work for what I do, I like that I know the focal lengths, and lack of choice makes me a better photographer... but your mileage may vary

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