Yes a bit confusing must confess, but I got it at the second time
Finally I understand correctly what everyone says about Nikon and Canon used lens market!
Thank you a lot for your messages, you both have been very helpful.
I'll probably go for the Canon 550d because here the new Sony's SLT are more expansive then the 550d and with that difference I can actually buy a regular camcorder after if I really feel the need to.
The 850€ Pack for the 550d with a stabilized lens 18-135 is also a good deal, at least here since the pack of the 1100d with the 18-55 and 55-200 non of them stabilized is around 750€.
Besides I really enjoy the results of manual focus in the 550d videos, I think they give a some how romantic look in the final result.
Thank you again for the time spent with me.
all the best for you all